During Advent, resist the urge to sacrifice the good for the perfect! Large family life is a perpetual exercise in "making due" and here are some of my favorite shortcut solution to Christmas preparation challenges...
One-Hour Christmas Dress Make-Over
This dress make-over is awesome because when you are finished, you will have two dresses since the second skirt is simply an overlay. We made this because my daughter needed a black outfit for her choir presentation.
The dress was a hand-me-down and I found the black satin with a grey fleur-de-lis pattern at Walmart for $1.50 a yard. I basically made a skirt to slide over the existing one and tie in the back and I love how it turned out. She looked so pretty and elegant... and still youthful even though she was all in black.
Let me qualify "One Hour" by saying that it may be rather more time if you are rushing and sew the wrong sides together the first time *ahem* or have multiple children who need you about once every thirty seconds. All things considered, I think two hours was terrific.
I do not include a tutorial here because I am lazy. Also, if you don't have a good handle on basic sewing, you should probably use a pattern instead of hacking it. If you are a decent sewer and can make an apron, you can figure this out. The waist band construction is very much like that of a half apron. I made it larger than the actual dress skirt and the ties can just be tied tighter to adjust the fit.
Simplify Gift Wrapping
Somewhere between 4 and 7 children, my Christmas Eve's started getting pretty hairy. We don't pile on the gifts but even so, they do seem to multiply. We attend Midnight Mass and by the time we put the kids to bed, find all the hidden gifts (that is a challenge in itself) wherever I have them stashed, and wrap them and clean up, I'm looking at about a 5am bedtime. What a way to ruin Christmas morning for mom!
The solution came one year as I was poking around the internet: Fabric gift bags
. Lots of them in all shapes and sizes. It does require an initial investment of sewing time, but come Christmas Eve, I believe that every stitch is worth it. This is my third year and I add a few every year to account for any odd sizes and shapes. I am also starting to add tiny bags for stocking stuffers.
How do I make them? Well... if you can sew a straight line, you're good. Cut out a rectangle or square in your preferred size, hem one edge and stitch together on the three leftover sides. You can add an attached ribbon but I forego that since I don't know how exactly how a gift will fit inside until Christmas Eve. Kimberlee
has a beautiful book wrapping tutorial HERE
that includes a ribbon tie..
Do the kids miss tearing off wrapping? Nope. They don't seem to care at all. They are grateful, however, that mama is not so grumpy on Christmas morning.
Holiday Homeschool Scheduling
(For those of you wondering how to do it all...)
You can't do it all. So just do a two-for-one for Advent. Encourage the kids to DIY their gift-giving and make it art class, shop class, cooking class, whatever. The photo above is our "Adventures in Clay" class. Cookie made clay ornaments look like bronze with some patina. (Tutorial here
) I think they turned out so pretty.
Scheduled classes coming up this week:
Glitter Glue 101
Easy Wheat-Free Baking
House Cleaning Fundamentals
Stress Management Techniques
I drool over gorgeous catalog Advent wreaths every year and always forgo the purchase, put off by the price. This year, I didn't let the perfect get in the way of the good and I put together a very acceptable wreath for under $10. Not only is acceptably lovely but I really won't care if it gets wrecked by the kids nearly so much as if it had been precious and pricey.
Evergreen wreath meant for hanging on a wall: $4.00
Large berry cluster torn apart: 50 cents
Two glittery gold pine cone clusters: $1
Large Family Sibling Gift Exchange
I love it when the kids are generous with each other but it does get a little complicated for me to organize the little ones' gift-making/choosing, wrapping and hiding. So, a couple years ago we started a modified Christkindl tradition. It's kind of like a Secret Santa but far more faith-oriented. Jessica at Shower of Roses has a beautiful explanation of the practice. Check it out here
. She uses Maria von Trapp's beautiful family tradition as a point of departure for her own family. Our implementation is much more rudimentary but I hope to expand on it a little more every year to develop the Christ-centered theme. For now, they offer daily prayers for the one whose name was picked and choose a gift to give on Christmas Day. As they get older, they may wish to expand their sibling gift exchanges, but for now, this is simple and still delightful.
Getting in the Christmas Spirit
I hear this complaint every year and have issued it myself: I just don't feel into it this year. I don't have the spirit yet.
You and I both know that Christmas comes whether we're feelin' it or not, but there are some things we can do to beat the blahs and get our twinkle back. I highly recommend, for example, that you find yourself some sacred music to drink deeply into your soul. There's a reason that the church elevates certain types of music... because there is music for the ears and music for the soul
. Drink deeply, my friends, drink deeply. I recorded 17 seconds of my kids singing with their schola here for illustration and your enjoyment. I wanted to record more but, you know, babies happen...
Incidentally, these are the same kids who were my athlete stand-outs
and quit club sports to put God first. Looks like they have found some new talents. :)
What are your favorite Christmas short-cuts? I personally need as many as I can get!