"Mommy, why do we give stuff up? Why did I give up candy? Can't I have some? Can I change what I gave up? I want to change it."
No. You shouldn't change it, honey. But I get it. I really do.
"1. Whensoever a man desires any thing inordinately, he is presently disquieted within himself.
The proud and covetous are never easy.
The poor and humble of spirit live in much peace.
The man that is not yet perfectly dead to himself, is soon tempted and overcome with small and trifling things.
He that is weak in spirit, and in a manner yet carnal and inclined to sensible things, can hardly withdraw himself wholly from earthly desires.
And therefor he is often sad, when he withdraws himself from them, and is easily moved to anger if anyone thwarts him.
2. And if he has pursued his inclination, he is immediately tormented with the guilt of his conscience, because he has followed his passion, which helps him not at all toward the peace he sought for.
It is then by resisting our passions, that we are to find true peace of heart, and not by being slaves to them.
There is no peace, therefore, in the heart of a carnal man, nor in a man that is addicted to outward things; but only in a fervent spiritual man."
-- Chapter 6, The Imitation of Christ